This isn’t completely accurate for the Bean, but it hit close enough to home that I had to share it on my blog.

Which part of the brain most describes the toddler in your life?
11 Saturday Feb 2012
01 Wednesday Feb 2012
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The monthly letters are continuing into the 3rd year. I will continue each month, but I must warn you on the topic this month. If you don’t want to read about potty training in descriptive (yet relatively clean) language, you might want to skip this post. If you want to feel the pain (or laugh at us), read on. Continue reading »
17 Tuesday Jan 2012
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Pinterest (aka, my internet addiction) was the inspiration of a play date today. We introduced the kids to the term “hypothesis” (can’t hurt to start early, right?)
Admittedly, the “experiment” was more – look and see what this does. But the scientists were 3, so we let it slide a bit. We did these “experiments”…
- One that I didn’t know about at all, that was pretty cool was the color symphony in milk. Here is that picture.
01 Sunday Jan 2012
The last month of age 2 started with a visit from Grandma and Grandpa. They were able to give you all the things that Grandparents do – they hugged, spoiled and loved you… and you ate it up. Thankfully you are over the shy phase and were only too happy to take in all the grand parents had to give.
Since your last birthday you’ve been having tea parties with your toys. This month you got to join Mommy for a real tea party. You were really excited at the idea of it, but when it came time to actually sit with adults, you found other things to do.
Your desire to have a birthday got stronger. We’ve been having a countdown of Continue reading »
01 Thursday Dec 2011
(OK, so timeliness isn’t my strong suit lately. You will forgive me. Look at that cool button that let’s you publish in the past… I think we will use that today….)
Dearest Bean,
This month you spent reinforcing to us that you loved Halloween. A small reason could be that you still had candy at the end of the month from your huge bounty on Halloween evening. This was proven by you still shouting “Happy Halloween” several weeks later. You made Mommy proud.
This month you have had great progress in potty training. You are spending several days a week at school without a diaper (except nap time). We are thrilled with this, but because you have this progress in the forefront of your mind and because you like to use these terms with great frequency. You love to talk about poop. All the time. Sometimes Pee is fun to talk about, but mainly poop. Not that you will do that for us at home on the potty. Ever. But apparently you do at school and all your friends are doing it (go peer pressure!) it is a topic to discuss Continue reading »
01 Friday Jul 2011
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Dearest Bean,
This month marks the day that you are officially “two and a half”. Not only do we not officially number your age in months, but you are now referred to in 1/2 years.
June didn’t start off so well. Our family dog, Bubba, passed away on June 1st. You asked where she was a few times, but didn’t really get what it meant that she died. You are just confused that she isn’t coming back. Thankfully, the rest of the month was good.
Finally, your appetite has developed. We have a fairly normal dinner every day! When you say that you are finished, I actually believe that you are full. Thank you so much for this.
A good portion of this month was spent sick. I developed Scarlet Fever and we had a small scare that you may have also had Strep throat – thankfully it was only a scare, but you did feel grumpy and under the weather for about a week.
Finally – we have a house with Air conditioning and you can sleep in a cool room. As it turns out, you really like having the fan on, so when you are having trouble sleeping, we turn on the fan anyway. Speaking of sleeping, you have started to protest your bed time on occasion. This is not news for any toddler, but you LOVE bed time. The whole routine from giving everyone in the house a hug to my saying “night, night. sleep tight, dream good dreams.” you love it all. Until a few days ago. It has only been a couple of nights, but it is distressing as I have seen others obsess about sleep. Given the choice, as long as you are growing and are actually healthy, I’d rather obsess about your food intake than sleep – because this means Daddy and I also get to sleep. If you can work on that and have it not repeat, that would be great. Thanks.
You are going through a phase of being shy with everyone, not just strangers. I love that you cling to me, but I feel bad for whomever is trying to get a hug – like your family, godparents and others who love you (and you love). I know you love them because you talk about them ALL the time. You even sing about some of them – which is a lot of fun to listen to, although have not caught it on video yet. I have the camera ready when you are, though.
Potty training – now that you are two and a half, it is time for “official training”. I recognize that this is the weirdest thing you ever did in your whole life, but it is an important part of growing up. You already are adaptable to going potty in various bathrooms, but in and out of our home and you LOVE to go (well – you love to wash your hands. While this is an important part of the process, you use washing your hands as the prize for activity on the potty. Hey – whatever works, I’ll go with it) You do love getting stickers as well – all good. The challenge is that you refuse to go “number two” on the potty. You discuss it, you know that it goes in the potty and not in your diaper. You even have been on the potty and told that you should try when you had to go (by “try” you thought about it and opted to get off the potty and within minutes “went” in your diaper). What is the mystery of the poo in the potty? I’ve asked other parents and teachers and others are also mystified. Since you “use your words” in other circumstances, you could fill me in – we can solve it, then write a book explaining to others… we would get enough money to send you to college through your PhD three times over! So, come on, help me out, would ya?
Swimming continues to be among your very favorite things in the world to do. You love to throw things in the pool, then have me go get them. It is sadly similar to fetch with me as the dog – but I do it anyway because it makes you laugh like there is nothing funnier in the world. I would take offense, but I like to believe that you just find it funny to have me pick up things and not you see me as a dog fetching for you.
You also transform into a ball of giggles when Daddy counts to five and grabs your face. He holds up his fingers, counting to five, then grabs your face. You also have huge giggle fits at the song in which monkeys jump on a bed, fall of and bonk their head, ending with the doctor saying “no more monkeys jumping on the bed”. You sing it loudly and proudly with great frequency.
Favorite things to do are still coloring (which you love love love) and play doh (messy, but you love it). You are also playing with your plethora of babies – although your baby doll ( the one with a skimpy top and no pants) is often in “time out” for a variety of problems, chief among them hitting people. I don’t know why you think of your baby as so abusive, but I hope this is not a reflection of your behavior when I am not around. I am also hopeful that you are not being hit by others (because I will have to take them OUT). OK, I won’t be violent – but I will make them cry.)
We love you very much and wish the very best for you. Love you lots!
Love,
Mommy
01 Thursday Jul 2010
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Today, dear Bean, you are one and a half years old!
Since I am turning into a broken record, I’ll spare you the “I can’t believe how fast…” or “…how big…” commentary (even though it is still true). Instead, I’ll tell you all about the past month and all the cool new stuff.
You graduated into the next class at daycare. You aren’t a huge fan of the new setting, but are glad to have your friend with you again who is a couple months ahead of you in transitions. In your new class, you are no longer using a bottle and you are eating the school lunches exclusively! We are still struggling at home with you eating “big people” food – but we are SO excited that you are getting better.
Daddy and I have been keeping up with your haircuts (just cutting your bangs) until this month – so we went for your second haircut. It was MUCH better than your first (thankfully!) I will remember this as your first good haircut.
Last week, your cousins C & J came with Grandma and Grandpa. You LOVED playing with them. Anything they wanted to do, you were agreeable and just wanted to watch and learn everything they did. You especially enjoyed the new game of getting in and out of the ice chest that was left on the porch with a little bit of water in the bottom. You were dragging C & J in and out of the cooler for at least 2 hours! Finally we gave up and just went swimming, which you also loved.
While the family was in town, we took you on your first trip to the zoo. You were not so impressed with the animals. Through prior training, you were able to tell us what many of them “said”. You were far more impressed with the parakeets that flew away when you got close, than the giraffe you got to touch.
Your language skills continue to explode, but you are camera shy about it. Only when you are feeling very comfortable, will you say the words you know. As soon as I can, I will post video of all your new tricks. You can name all the parts of your face, you can tell us what a variety of animals “say” (i.e., moo, woof woof, etc.), you are still keeping Mama and Daddy, night night, bye bye and Bubba. You can say more, all done, and milk (these are very handy at meal time). There are a variety of other miscellaneous words you can say as well.
You went to your second wedding, this time in North Carolina. You don’t like road trips. At all. So this road trip ended up being much longer than planned. We will try to avoid strapping you down for any length of time going forward, but I would appreciate it if you could cooperate a little bit… it makes the trip shorter – making us and you much happier.
You are starting to outgrow a lot of your toys, so we will spend part of this month going through what we will keep, donate and sell. This, along with cleaning up your own toys, is one of the things I am trying to teach you – but it isn’t sticking. I wonder if it is because you don’t want to clean or if you REALLY don’t get it. The books say it is advanced for you, but you seem to be able to throw EVERY toy you have on the floor, spread them out and proceed to find a single toy to play with in another corner. I think you should be able to pick them up on demand as well. Maybe we will work on this next month.
01 Tuesday Jun 2010
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Dearest Bean,
You are starting to look less like a baby and more like a toddler. I am constantly amazed at how fast you are growing and I am so very proud of you. This month you did a lot, so your readers will have to click “more” to get the full post.
This month you have discovered that you don’t only have to get bitten at daycare, you can do some biting of your own. You bit two kids (or the same kid twice… not sure which). I am now struggling with figuring out how to teach you the lessons of life, including the lesson about not biting people, when we don’t really speak the same language.
Your new vampire tendency you have could be related to the FOUR new teeth you have coming in all at the same time.
26 Friday Mar 2010
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My new favorite game EVER is the game the Bean learned this morning. She learned to blow kisses.
This game has surpassed my previous favorite game (though still in a strong second place), the hugging game. The hugging game is where you sit on the floor and she runs across the room, then with a dramatic pause, runs over to you and gives a big hug.
Over the weekend I am going to try to capture the blowing kisses game on video and will share it with you.
01 Monday Feb 2010
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This month has been yet another adventure. All the things Bean is learning have been expanding. I have said it before, but I love watching kids learn and see new things. The little light going on is really amazing to watch.
This month:
Everything she did since mid-month, she did with a cold/daycare plague/ear infection/pink eye. This made her mood less than happy.
The most exciting update is language. Much like many other things – it is not 100% clear – so we are not shouting from the roof tops. (It is NOTHING like “Look Who’s Talking Too” when he all of a sudden says “Daddy”) – but we believe that she is saying “Daddy” when she says “dada”. She is also saying “nom nom” (bad habit we started when feeding her to call her food “nom noms”) – but it is language. I was really hoping for Mommy first, but Daddy is good too. This, of course, is in addition to “uh oh” and “oooh”, both of which she has been saying appropriately for a little over a month.
Walking skills continue to improve. She is now starting to climb! (I don’t know how to baby proof the ceiling). The living room is finally “proofed” (translation: there is nowhere to put a drink down that she won’t be able to get to it.) At least I thought it was proofed until she opened drawers (with nothing in them) and used it as a step to climb on the table, tv, etc. I can’t really move those tables – so – we took out the drawers. (this is only temporary, right?)
Stats from last doc appointment: 21 lbs, 12 oz. 30″ tall and 18 3/4″ head. As noted, she needs to be “sleep trained” and she can eat anything except peanuts and those things Daddy and I are allergic to (she has a higher chance, so better to wait). All in all, doing great.
The sleep training has moved from “pulling her toes off” to going to sleep on demand most of the time. The only issue we had was one night she was less than happy and wanted to explain her unhappiness for a couple of hours. Other than that – she goes to bed while still awake and goes to sleep on her own! (woohOOO!!)
About the food – she is better w/ textured foods. We’ve been sharing more foods with her and she hasn’t gagged nearly as much! (very thankful about this one!) I really don’t want to send pureed foods w/ her to Kindergarten. When we went to dinner, she ate pieces of the bread with great success! So we tried eggs… it failed.
Her body shape is officially “toddler” and is no longer “baby”. She stands up and walks tall (even when she has her belly sticking out and hands behind her like George Jefferson).
Daycare had a shout out to her new skillz, saying she would soon be ready for the next room (away from her favorite ‘teacher’). It is nice to get a shout out, but they did forget her birthday in the Newsletter.
She heard ‘Sounds of Silence’ for the first time. It was on a recording of the 25th anniversary of the Rock and Roll Hall of fame. She stopped everything she was doing (playing with her tons of toys) and watched. Simon & Garfunkel sucked her in and she was mesmerized by the song. She is also a big fan of ZZ Top, but doesn’t care about the Foo Fighters.
We are officially “bad parents” because we have used the Baby Einstein videos as a baby sitter a few times this month. (it is mainly times when we HAVE to do something and sitting quietly in a safe place by herself isn’t an option.)
The top center teeth have officially popped out and the two next to them are expected any day.
She is waving and it will melt your heart.
As always, she continues to amaze me and I love her more than I thought was possible. Now if I can convince Daddy, she can have a sibling… I am not holding my breath though. He is pretty fond of sleep. He also says that he remembers my pregnancy better than I do and thinks I am crazy for wanting it again.