I have been reading a lot about what to expect next for the Bean, and I have come to a conclusion.

“The books” the phrase I use to describe all the parenting books, blogs, magazines and other people I deem “experts” in the field of parenting. Yes, I said field of parenting. It is a career with skills that can  be learned (I tell myself this so I can have some level of confidence I can do it too). “The books” don’t always agree, but I use the pieces of information that do agree and pick and choose what seems to fit for the Bean.

“The books” say that something called “stranger anxiety” and “separation anxiety” are on their way, now that the Bean is 6 months old. “Separation anxiety” is not wanting to be away from people. “Stranger anxiety” is not wanting to be away from people she knows and trusts (i.e., Mommy, Daddy, etc.). After today’s doctor appointment and six month shots, I think I understand why it happens now (and for the next few months).

She is starting to become aware of different people. Some she knows, some she doesn’t… all are fine, because she has had no really bad things happen… at least that she remembers. Now her memory is expanding a little bit. At six months, she gets a shot from a nurse, poked and prodded by the doctor and generally has a bad experience… all while in a bad mood because she has teeth coming in (ouch!) If you only knew good people who do good things, then this “stranger” comes and hurts you, I wouldn’t trust just anyone either. Not only that, but I don’t think I’d want to veer too far away from people I do know and trust… just in case they forgot to tell you about something that is sure to suck as much as those shots.

This isn’t the answer on how to solve it… she needs the shots. But I think I am on to something.